A terrific first time visitor on the podcast at the moment as Dotun Olubeko, winner of Bachelorette season 21 now up wherever you take heed to your podcasts and on my YouTube channel. Wanna thank BetUS for connecting Dotun and I for this interview. First time ever talking with him and I’ve them to thank for it. Click on on BetUS to test it out. By no means thought that Dotun and I’d join, however hey, right here we’re. We had so much to go over since his life has been a whirlwind for 12 months now. We discuss Jenn’s finale, focus on the chance that maaaaaaaybe he spoiled his personal season (hey, I needed to ask), he has some questions for Actuality Steve he needed to get off his chest, being in a public relationship, does DWTS have an effect on {couples}, and far, far more. Nice time with Dotun at the moment and I hope you all take pleasure in this dialog.
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YOUR DAILY ROUNDUP 9/5 TRANSCRIPT
You’re listening to the Every day Roundup right here as a part of the Actuality Steve podcast. I’m your host, Actuality Steve. Thanks all for tuning in. A very good Thursday present for you, regardless that a few of you is perhaps receiving this on Thursday night time or Wednesday night time as a result of as you already know, I’m heading out of city. within the morning and I simply needed to get all of your podcasts up proper now.
So we’re going to speak extra about gen season, every part that went down yesterday, issues that occurred on social media. We’ve bought so much to cowl in at the moment’s podcast and we’ll get to that momentarily. I do wish to say this, your whole stuff is coming tonight. So every day roundup you’re listening to proper now in about quarter-hour from now, the sports activities every day can be up after which about quarter-hour after that, 1230 AM central time is when your episode, your weekly podcast episode quantity 4 Oh seven with Dotton Alabeco is occurring tonight.
It’ll be on my YouTube channel at 1230 AM. Central time needs to be in your podcast feed a bit of bit earlier than that. So you’re getting every part tonight. I simply need to have the ability to get up tomorrow morning, bathe, get in my automobile, go to the airport and never have to fret about stuff. I would retweet a few of the stuff that I put out tonight and simply say, Hey, for these of you that had been sleeping.
Once I posted these things, it’s up after which tomorrow’s every day roundup and sports activities every day are each already loaded and able to go. Right now was actually most likely one of many busiest days. Not solely did it must be the day after the finale, nevertheless it’s additionally a day the place I did three interviews and recorded 5 podcasts.
Like I simply, I procrastinated tomorrow’s a podcast visitor on the every day roundup is Kristen Burtt, who’s an leisure reporter for Dem dancing with the celebrities. So we spend about 35 minutes speaking about that. My sports activities every day tomorrow was already pre recorded, however I nonetheless needed to document an open and a detailed.
I recorded with Dotton at the moment. I recorded at the moment’s sports activities every day and I recorded this podcast. So yeah, 5 podcasts, three interviews. Busy, busy day, however I’m clear till Sunday night time after I document Mondays, a every day roundup and a sports activities every day. However I simply didn’t wish to must document something. Ravens and chiefs are tonight.
I’ll be in Vegas and I didn’t wish to have to return to my room after the sport at like, nicely, it’ll be about eight 30, 9 o’clock on a Thursday night time in Vegas, they usually didn’t wish to return to my room and spend an hour there recording two podcasts. In order that they’re all set. Loaded, able to go tomorrow. All proper, so let’s get going with some extra bachelorette stuff.
Some issues that got here to me from that I perhaps didn’t get to yesterday. Regarding the finale, nothing new to report with regard to what I heard from the one that messaged me. I’m nonetheless attempting to work out some particulars and discover out, clearly I wish to vet this correctly and wish to make sure that.
However I don’t know. If I can, this particular person, you already know, somebody contacted me that is aware of one thing about someone else. And I’m like, nicely, I want to speak to that someone else particular person immediately. I imply, I, I’m not saying I’m doubting your story, however I must go straight to the supply right here and the person who’s probably concerned.
So I’m simply ready to listen to again from them and see if they’ll put me in contact. Or if that different particular person even needs to talk, I. Don’t know, and I can’t drive them to in the event that they don’t wish to some issues that I simply by no means went over within the finale. The present itself. I believed Jen’s brother was wonderful. I imply, that man killed it very, you already know, he wasn’t like gung ho, like a number of these households are skeptical, however he was skeptical with a delicate facet about it.
He wasn’t simply coming down on the fellows. He was asking good questions. Crucial factor about James, her brother was, you already know, Whereas we had been watching the episode of what occurred again in Hawaii, the reside shot of him in his seat just about advised the entire story. The man by no means cracked a smile as soon as.
After which you’ve got Jesse asking him after we watched each guys meet James and the household. We had Jesse ask him, how are you feeling proper now? He’s like, not too completely satisfied proper now. So we form of knew that at that time he wouldn’t say that if Jen was completely satisfied and in a relationship and nonetheless engaged. So we form of knew what was coming, however.
It was very telling to say the least however James, he knocked it out of the park on that episode for certain. You already know, the extra I give it some thought, the extra bothered I’m by them displaying the proposal. And sure, I’m very nicely conscious that Jen mentioned in a number of interviews yesterday that she, she knew it was coming.
She knew they had been going to point out the proposal. She knew it was going to be an emotional night time for her they usually knew, and she or he mentioned, I used to be not stunned in any respect. They didn’t shock me and throw that on me. She goes, I knew it was coming, which is ok, however that doesn’t make it proper. It doesn’t imply, Hey, we gave her a heads up.
She knew we had been going to point out it. I don’t assume that’s the query that needs to be requested. The query that needs to be requested is why did you need to present it? Whether or not they confirmed it in, and a few individuals are saying, nicely, I believe they, I didn’t have an issue displaying them displaying it. They need to have confirmed it within the regular sequence.
And once we, so we normally see proposals occur. I’m like, I don’t assume it issues, you already know? And, and the most important drawback I’ve with it’s the truth that I mentioned it yesterday, however I wish to repeat this once more. That is the difficulty. We noticed her dump Marcus. Then the subsequent scene is Devin going to fulfill Neil Lane to take a look at rings.
After which proper after that scene, Jesse Palmer, we get again to a reside shot of Jesse Palmer on the sofa saying, Hey, usually presently, very completely satisfied second, we might present you the proposal, however we’re not going to do this as a result of what’s occurred since that day. After which they’ve two segments of Jen sitting on the sofa crying.
And then you definitely present it prefer it simply doesn’t make any sense after they particularly advised us we’re not going to point out it. He didn’t say at that time, we’re not going to point out it now. We wish to discuss it and we’ll present it later. I simply, it made no sense. And this present can say no matter they need. No one has come out but from the present and defended them displaying the proposal.
I doubt anyone will. Jesse’s going to be requested about it in some unspecified time in the future, I’d assume, however my level is nothing that they are saying, and I do know their reply goes to be like, we needed to point out Jen that she was an empowering girl at that and the way robust she was on that day. I’m sorry. That’s not adequate.
She didn’t must see that. You probably did it to get a viral TV second and to get folks speaking. You probably did it for tv functions, not since you had been searching for Jen’s emotions. The lady was already a large number for 2 straight segments, and then you definitely made her watch that once more. And I do know she mentioned, look, I needed Devin to look at it, however Devin needed no a part of it both.
Sat there along with his head down, and Jen sat there crying. Once more. Which I imply, how may you not watching that again along with your ex fiance sitting proper subsequent to you? It was simply so not stylish. It was humiliating. It was embarrassing and it by no means ought to have been proven interval. Finish of story. There’s nothing they’ll say to persuade me.
Oh, I see their facet. I simply don’t. I don’t see it. It was a tv stunt executed to get folks speaking, which clearly it labored. Individuals are speaking about it at the moment. All people’s speaking about it at the moment. I can’t consider they made her sit via that proposal that they bought what they needed. It doesn’t make it proper.
Devin on the sofa saying, you already know, yeah, regretfully, I used to be late on letting you understand how I felt. That’s his finest rationalization. Actually? That’s all you could possibly give you? You’ve had three and a half months since Might sixteenth to formulate one thing higher than that. And all he may say was, Regretfully, I used to be late on letting you understand how I felt.
Once more, folks on this franchise are allowed to get off the present. I’m speaking about remaining {couples}. You’re allowed to get off the present, have your completely satisfied couple visits, begin attending to know one another extra and understand, Oh shit, perhaps this isn’t gonna work out between us. That’s completely acceptable. The truth is, it’s the norm on the present.
Trigger far more {couples} break up than really keep collectively. Once more, my largest subject with Devin just isn’t that he couldn’t be suitable with Jen or that Jen couldn’t be suitable with him, or they wouldn’t have made it longterm. It’s the truth that the love bombing occurred for the final 4 episodes. And as Jen mentioned, which is confirmed by Dotton, if you hear on this interview at the moment, Dotton tells me, I noticed Jen proper after filming ended at CMA Fest and she or he mentioned then one thing’s form of off.
He mentioned she didn’t spoil something for me, however she’s like one thing’s form of off. One thing’s bizarre. That was CMA Fest. That was like perhaps every week after they bought again from filming, finish of Might. In order that’s what I imply. What Jen mentioned was confirmed by Dotton on Podcast quantity 407 arising in about an hour from now, half hour from now, no matter, 1230 a.
m. He’s Central Customary Time. It was confirmed by him. She wasn’t mendacity on the stage when she mentioned she felt like he was distant from the time they left Hawaii and one foot out the door. Like, I imply, I, I mentioned it on Dave’s reside Monday night time after the present. And I’ll say it once more. If he would have simply went for a month or two months and understand, man, it’s not working between us and simply had, they usually broke up earlier than the present.
Yeah, it could have sucked. It’s occurred earlier than although, on the present the place they couldn’t even make it. The ultimate couple couldn’t make it to after the ultimate rose, however. We simply not getting a solution to, Hey, I couldn’t reside as much as your expectations, Jen. Okay. Why couldn’t you reside as much as the expectations? Inform us, inform us the way you felt the place you simply, you get off the, you get off the Island in Hawaii and also you’re identical to, I’m not drawn to her.
I don’t discover her enticing in any respect. Was it, she snores throughout her, when she sleeps? I don’t know. I’m simply saying, give us a cause. You gave us nothing and that’s why it’s very exhausting to consider something he says, particularly when he says, regretfully, I’m late on letting you already know, I ought to’ve let you already know. I couldn’t reside as much as your expectations and also you weren’t the particular person you need to have been round me.
I identical to, I’m sorry. He’s like placing it again on her to virtually take warmth off himself. Like, you already know, the virtually. Nearly the, it’s not, it’s not you, it’s me. So I completely perceive the place he simply didn’t have the balls to come back out and inform her why he wasn’t, why he wasn’t feeling it along with her anymore. And I’m sorry after I’ve heard all of the issues that I’ve heard for the final 4 months.
After which I discover out that this man mainly checked out from the second he left Hawaii.
It’s very simple to consider he conned her and he was by no means going to be severe about this relationship. He went on the present to win a recreation present in his thoughts. And you already know, I don’t know the way recreation of roses is speaking about this, however wouldn’t he technically be like the best recreation participant on this present’s historical past as a result of he received the ring or no matter, and, after which bolted, he did every part he wanted to do to win.
Like if it’s all about successful, Devin is perhaps one of many biggest gamers ever. But when it’s all about the way you deal with folks, he’s most likely one of many worst. In order that’s what I imply. It’s simply, he’s not man. Sorry. There’s no different manner round it. And the way in which he handled her, the way in which he acted on stage, so aloof, didn’t appear to take accountability for something.
Simply got here throughout as terrible.
