Jennifer Lopez is just not right here to really feel sorry for herself.

And he or she doesn’t need you to, both.

Greater than a month after submitting for divorce from Ben Affleck, the artist opened up for the primary time about this very public cut up in a profile for Interview journal.

“It’s a must to be full, if you would like one thing that’s extra full,” Lopez informed comic Nikki Glaser, including:

“It’s a must to be good by yourself. I believed I realized that, however I didn’t. After which, this summer time, I needed to be like, ‘I must go off and be by myself. I wish to show to myself that I can do this.’”

Lopez by no means talked about Affleck by identify within the sit-down.

However she makes just a few clear references to the divorce whereas specializing in her personal self-healing and self-confidence.

“I feel my entire life I’ve simply been attempting to say I’m ok, till the place I’m now, after I know. I’m giving myself credit score,” the singer continued.

“I’m telling that little lady that grew up within the Bronx, ‘You’ve achieved actually good for your self.’ I didn’t do this for therefore a few years.

“And now I feel, with all the pieces that’s occurred in my life and in my relationships and even in my profession, it’s like, give your self a little bit of consolation and love.

“We’ve been by means of a number of issues that no one is aware of about, and also you’ve persevered and also you refuse to surrender and to let it get you down.”

Certainly, Lopez has now been divorced 3 times.

She and Affleck seem like on nice phrases, nevertheless.

“There’s one thing to be mentioned for that as a result of issues can actually change your life in a means that you just do wish to surrender and say, “F—-ck this, that is too onerous, I don’t wish to do that anymore,’” Lopez went on. “However I’m not there. I refuse to not give myself all the pieces that little lady deserves.”

Amen, J. Lo!

Previous to this interview, Lopez has scarcely addressed her most up-to-date break-up, solely sharing the occasional social media submit.

Lopez famous that being a mom of 16-year-old twins Max and Emme — whom she shares together with her ex-husband Marc Anthony — and up to date tasks such because the movie Unstoppable have helped her come to phrases with private heartbreak.

“With This Is Me … Now and the challenge you talked about earlier, I felt like, whoa, I received right here. I’m good,” she mentioned. “I did all of the work and look the place I’m, after which it was like my entire f-cking world exploded.”

Lopez filed for divorce from Affleck on August 20 after two years of marriage. She listed the pair’s date of separation as April 26 and cited irreconcilable variations as the idea for the divorce.

“Being in a relationship doesn’t outline me. I can’t be on the lookout for happiness in different folks. I’ve to have happiness inside myself,” continued Lopez, who says she has no regrets about marrying Affleck.

The famous person isn’t available in the market for a brand new associate proper now — and concluded with this message:

“I do know that all the pieces that’s being written and mentioned about me, and all of the conjecture of who I’m as an individual, is just not who I’m. I realized that a very long time in the past.

I do know I’m an excellent particular person. I do know I’m an excellent mother. I do know who my mates are. I do know my mates know who I’m, my mother, my dad, all that stuff.