The oldest of Heather Dubrow and Terry Dubrow’s 4 kids have formally crossed over to maturity!

“What an unimaginable weekend celebrating the twins twenty first birthday!!!!” the Actual Housewives of Orange County star, 55, started because the caption to a Tuesday, Nov. 26, Instagram carousel celebrating her daughter Max Dubrow, 21, and son Nick Dubrow, additionally 21.

In response to the truth star, the household spent “3 days of celebrations with household and buddies in NYC,” together with stops at in style restaurant scorching spot Carbone, and partying at Maison Shut in Soho.

Although the duvet photograph, and many who adopted, confirmed the twins and their mother and father toasting with bottles and glasses of Dom Pérignon, Heather promised “Extra pics later” in addition to “particulars on the podcast this week!”

“What wonderful reminiscences for all of us ! We love you Nicky and Max ! ❤️” she concluded.

Chatting with PEOPLE on Nov. 15 on the sixth Annual Vanderpump Canine Gala on the Maybourne Beverly Hills, the proud mother and father dished on their twins then-upcoming birthday. 

“The twins are turning 21 subsequent week. I can not consider it,” Heather instructed PEOPLE completely. 

“I imply, like Terry speaks for himself, clearly, however for me, I am so grateful for my household,” she continued. “Clearly, that is the love of my life. I’ve 4 wholesome, nice youngsters and our household, you recognize, knock on wooden. Everybody appears to be, you recognize, in a great spot proper now.”

Along with Max and Nick, Heather and Terry are mother and father to Kat Dubrow, 18, and Ace Dubrow, 13.

Whereas on the occasion, Heather and the Botched star, 66, additionally shared their recommendation for different mother and father of LGBTQ+ kids.

“I’ve 4 wholesome, nice youngsters and our household — knock on wooden — everybody appears to be in a great spot proper now,” she mentioned.

Three of their kids determine as LGBTQ+. For the couple, who’ve been married since 1999, being on Bravo has given them the chance to indicate others how their household operates and helps each other.

“I’m truly grateful for the platform that Heather has with Housewives,” Terry instructed PEOPLE, including, “It permits us to assist the LGBTQ neighborhood.”

In June 2020, Max got here out as bisexual. The following 12 months, Kat got here out as a lesbian. In March 2023, the mom of 4 mentioned her youngest little one had come out as transgender. 

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“I believe an important factor is to remain in our neighborhood and maintain speaking to one another and reaching out to buddies and ensuring persons are good,” Heather mentioned of elevating a household in “difficult occasions” following the 2024 election outcomes. 

“And displaying what a standard household seems to be like, particularly through the holidays,” Terry mentioned.